Here's a list of books I recommend often. As time allows, I will update with more information about what I like and why I think they are important reads. For now I was able to put together this quick list for starters.
Come As You Are by Dr. Emily Nagaski
This amazing book will help you understand and celebrate your unique sexual nature.
Why Men Love Bitches a classic by Sherry Argove
The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukov
On Emotional Abuse
Sex at Dawn
Mating in Captivity
The Power of Intention
Jack Canfield on goal setting (Chapter 7!!!)